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  • Book Review: Secure Love by Julie Menanno

    Book Review: Secure Love by Julie Menanno

    Reviewed By Michael McManus, LCSW

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    Reading “Secure Love” by Julie Menanno is like having a heart-to-heart chat with your best friend about what makes relationships tick. One of the main things I love about this book is that it gives specific examples and strategies of how to interrupt toxic communication patterns that couples have been unconsciously repeating for years.  Many couples that come in to see me report that they start out discussing a seemingly simple topic and then it escalates into an argument and they don’t even know how they got there. Julie  breaks down the often confusing world of love and attachment styles in a way that’s super easy to understand. You don’t need a psychology degree to get it!

    Imagine this book as your personal guidebook to love, where each chapter feels like a cozy conversation over coffee. The author shares relatable stories that make you nod your head in agreement, thinking, “Wow, that’s so me!” It’s all about figuring out why we act the way we do in relationships and how our past experiences shape our love lives.

    One of the best parts is the emphasis on communication. The book teaches you that being open and honest is like the secret sauce for a healthy relationship. It gives you tips on how to express your feelings without sounding like a robot or starting a fight.

    Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this book has something for everyone. It’s packed with wisdom that can help you build stronger connections and maybe even find a little more happiness in your love life.

    If you’re looking for a fun, insightful read that helps you navigate the wild world of love, “Secure Love” is a fantastic choice! Grab a copy, settle in, and get ready to rethink love in the best way possible.

    Michael McManus LCSW is a psychotherapist in private practice in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida and can be reached by phone or text at 1-850-837-0123 or Psychotherapy30A.com 

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  • The Three Most Common Types of Skin Cancer: What You Need to Know

    The Three Most Common Types of Skin Cancer: What You Need to Know

    Dr. Jessica Clark,  Beach Dermatology Skin Wellness Clinic

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    As a board-certified dermatologist, one of the most important aspects of my practice is educating patients about skin cancer. Skin cancer is the most common type of cancer in the United States, but the good news is that when detected early, it is often treatable. Let’s discuss the three most common types of skin cancer—basal cell carcinoma, squamous cell carcinoma, and melanoma—and what you should watch for to protect your skin.

    1. Basal Cell Carcinoma (BCC)

    Basal cell carcinoma is the most common type of skin cancer, accounting for about 80% of all skin cancer cases. It typically develops in the basal cells, which are found in the lower part of the epidermis (the outer layer of the skin). Basal cell carcinoma is generally slow-growing and rarely spreads to other parts of the body, but it can cause significant local damage if left untreated.

    What to look for:

    • Appearance: BCC often appears as a small, pearly or waxy bump, sometimes with visible blood vessels. It can also look like a flat, scaly patch.
    • Location: It usually develops on sun-exposed areas, such as the face, ears, neck, scalp, chest, shoulders, back, or arms.
    • Other signs: BCC may bleed, crust, or form a sore that doesn’t heal.

    While basal cell carcinoma is rarely life-threatening, early detection and treatment are important to prevent disfigurement or damage to surrounding tissue.

    2. Squamous Cell Carcinoma (SCC)

    Squamous cell carcinoma is the second most common type of skin cancer, responsible for about 20% of all skin cancer cases. SCC develops in the squamous cells, which make up most of the skin’s outer layer. Unlike basal cell carcinoma, squamous cell carcinoma can spread to other parts of the body if left untreated, though it typically remains localized in the beginning stages.

    What to look for:

    • Appearance: SCC often appears as a red, scaly, or crusted bump or patch. It may be firm to the touch and may bleed or ulcerate. *I always remind patients to call me if they have a small red bump that looks like a hard pimple or bug bite that has been there over a month. People often think SCC is a pimple or a spider bite and try to squeeze it. I have often seen primary care doctors treat these for a spider bite or cyst and they end up in my office because “it won’t go away.” SCC is important to catch early because it CAN SPREAD TO LYMPH NODES, especially in the neck area.
    • Location: It commonly develops in areas that have been sun-damaged, such as the face, ears, neck, chest, backs of the hands, or arms. However, it can also appear in other areas, including mucous membranes (like the mouth or genital area).
    • Other signs: SCC may be tender or itchy and may cause pain if it begins to grow deeper into the skin.

    If caught early, squamous cell carcinoma has a high cure rate, but like BCC, it requires prompt treatment to avoid complications.

    3. Melanoma

    Melanoma is the least common but most aggressive form of skin cancer. It arises from melanocytes, the cells responsible for producing pigment (melanin) in the skin. Melanoma can develop in previously normal skin or from an existing mole. Unlike BCC and SCC, melanoma has a higher likelihood of spreading to other parts of the body, making it the deadliest form of skin cancer if not caught in its early stages.

    What to look for:

    • Appearance: Melanomas often have an irregular shape, uneven color, and may have jagged or blurry borders. The color can vary from brown to black, and in some cases, it can be red, blue, or white.
    • Location: Melanoma can appear anywhere on the body, including areas not typically exposed to the sun, like the soles of the feet, palms of the hands, or under the nails. It is also common in moles on sun-exposed areas such as the back, legs, and face.
    • Other signs: A new mole or a change in an existing mole’s size, shape, or color should raise suspicion. Melanomas can also become painful, itchy, or bleed.

    Because melanoma can spread quickly, early detection is key. That’s why I always encourage my patients to regularly monitor their skin for any changes and to schedule routine skin exams.

    Prevention and Early Detection

    The good news about skin cancer is that it’s often preventable, and when caught early, it’s highly treatable. Here are a few important tips for prevention:

    • Sun Protection: Apply broad-spectrum sunscreen with an SPF of 30 or higher every two hours when outdoors, even on cloudy days. Wear protective clothing, hats, and sunglasses, and avoid tanning beds.
    • Skin Checks: Perform regular self-exams to check for any new moles or changes in existing ones. Use the ABCDE rule for melanoma:
      • Asymmetry (uneven shape)
      • Border (irregular edges)
      • Color (multiple colors)
      • Diameter (larger than 6mm)
      • Evolution (changes in size, shape, or color over time)
    • Regular Dermatology Visits: See a dermatologist for a full-body skin exam annually, or more frequently if you have a history of skin cancer or are at higher risk due to factors like fair skin, family history, or excessive sun exposure.

    Conclusion

    While the idea of skin cancer can be alarming, understanding the differences between basal cell carcinoma, squamous cell carcinoma, and melanoma can help you feel more empowered when it comes to taking care of your skin. Remember, early detection and protection are key to preventing skin cancer or catching it early when treatment is most effective. If you notice any changes in your skin or have concerns, don’t hesitate to schedule an appointment with a dermatologist. It’s always better to be safe than sorry!

    Call (850) 238-8511 to schedule a spot check with Board Certified Dermatologist Dr. Jessica Clark.

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  • Go Red in February: Raise Awareness and Reduce Heart Disease Risk

    Go Red in February: Raise Awareness and Reduce Heart Disease Risk

    By Kathryn Porter, APRN, ACNP-BC 

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    February is American Heart Month, first celebrated by the American Heart Association in 1963 and later officially recognized by President Johnson in 1964. We recognize National Wear Red Day on the first Friday of the month, in honor of the Go Red for Women campaign which aims to raise awareness about heart disease in women.

    Heart disease is the leading cause of death for women in the United States. In fact, about 1 in 3 women die from cardiovascular disease (CVD) each year. This includes conditions like coronary artery disease, heart attacks, and stroke. Despite these high rates, many women are unaware of their risk and may not recognize heart disease as a major threat to their health. In fact, cardiovascular disease kills more women than all forms of cancer combined.

    Several factors can increase the risk of heart disease in both women and men. Some are controllable, while others are not. Controllable risk factors for heart disease include high blood pressure, high cholesterol, smoking, diabetes, obesity, physical inactivity, and an unhealthy diet. These factors contribute to increased strain on the heart and arteries, raising the risk of heart disease. Uncontrollable factors include age, family history, gender, and genetics, with women’s risk rising after menopause. Chronic stress and untreated sleep apnea can also contribute to heart disease. Managing controllable risks through lifestyle changes like diet and exercise, along with regular health check-ups, can significantly reduce the risk of heart disease and promote overall heart health.

    Cardiovascular disease (CVD) affects men and women differently in terms of age, symptoms, and contributing factors. Men typically develop CVD in their 40s or 50s, while women’s risk increases after menopause. Women often experience more subtle symptoms, like fatigue or shortness of breath, which can lead to delays in seeking treatment, delayed care, and even misdiagnosis. Risk factors such as diabetes and high blood pressure impact women more strongly, especially after menopause. This is partly due to a decrease in estrogen, which has a protective effect on the heart and blood vessels. As estrogen levels drop, women are more likely to experience changes in cholesterol levels, increased abdominal fat, and higher blood pressure, all of which significantly increase heart disease risk. Social and emotional factors can further complicate heart disease in women.

    To reduce cardiovascular disease (CVD) risk in women and men, focus on these key interventions: Adopt a heart-healthy diet with plenty of fiber and proteins, while limiting ultra processed foods. Increase physical activity by incorporating weight training and moderate cardio into your routine. Quit smoking to prevent blood vessel damage and plaque buildup; Manage stress with relaxation techniques like meditation and yoga. Regular health screenings to monitor blood pressure, cholesterol, and blood sugar, and manage chronic conditions like diabetes. These changes, along with maintaining a healthy weight, can significantly lower heart disease risk and improve overall health. When risk factors extend beyond the control of diet and lifestyle, seek a knowledgeable health practitioner to guide you in your health journey, be that medication, screening, or referral to a cardiovascular specialist.

    Take the next step in prioritizing your heart health! If you have any questions or would like personalized guidance on managing your cardiovascular risk, or are interested in discussing risk factor modification or assessing your personal risk, don’t hesitate to reach out. Katherine Porter at Hydrate30A (hydreight30a@gmail.com) and Margaret Russell at 850 Midlife (margaret@850midlife.com) are happy to discuss your concerns and help you chart a path to a healthier future!

    Katherine Porter, APRN, ACNP-BC is the owner of Hydrate30A. She received a BSN from Auburn University and an MSN from UAB and has practiced locally as an acute care nurse practitioner since 2013. She can be contacted at hydreight30a@gmail.com

    Margaret Russell, APRN, AGACNP-BC is the owner of 850 Midlife and has been in practice locally for more than a decade. If you are interested in discussing risk factor modification or assessing your personal risk, She may be reached at Margaret@850Midlife.com

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  • SeaLight Festival Returns for 2025 with Stunning New Displays!

    SeaLight Festival Returns for 2025 with Stunning New Displays!

    After an incredible debut in 2024, the SeaLight Festival is back for 2025, offering an even more spectacular experience.

    Step into a mesmerizing world of light, featuring hundreds of handcrafted Chinese lanterns, each meticulously designed by artisans with decades of experience. This whimsical walk-through experience is perfect for the whole family, immersing visitors in a breathtaking display of color and culture.

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    This year’s festival introduces all-new, larger, and brighter lanterns, enhancing the magic of the event. Guests will also be thrilled by live performances from the Zigong Acrobatic Troupe, an award-winning Chinese acrobatic collective, delivering awe-inspiring shows under the Big Tent.

    Beyond the dazzling lights, enjoy a variety of vendors, cultural booths, games, and food & drink options. Under the Big Tent, families can also explore a children’s play area featuring bounce houses and even rideable giant dinosaurs!

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    The SeaLight Festival’s luminescent night walk brings the rich tradition of Chinese lantern festivals to life, celebrating craftsmanship and culture. The experience takes 30 to 45 minutes, depending on your pace.

    Don’t miss out on this unforgettable event—get your tickets now at www.sealightfestival.com/destin.

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  • Sand Up Comedy Festival Returns Valentine’s Day Weekend With Star Studded Lineup

    Sand Up Comedy Festival Returns Valentine’s Day Weekend With Star Studded Lineup

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    Annual event features top comedians and supports local artists and filmmakers through SOWAL Foundation. 

    Following the unprecedented success of last year’s sold-out inaugural event, the Sand Up  Comedy Festival is back for a second year, promising even more laughter and community engagement. Scheduled for Thursday, February 13 – Saturday, February 15, this year’s festival will feature performances at six iconic venues across Walton and Bay Counties,  with a stellar lineup of comedians seen on Netflix, Comedy Central, Sirius XM, Drybar  Comedy, and Bob Goldthwait’s Misfits & Monsters.

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    Whether you’re celebrating with someone special, spending time with friends, or enjoying a solo adventure, the Sand Up Comedy Festival is the perfect way to spend Valentine’s Day weekend—with a side of world-class comedy.

    Featured Venues 

    SOWAL House (Rosemary Beach) – A creative hub for intimate performances.

    Distillery 98 (Santa Rosa Beach) – Known for its unique distilled spirits and lively atmosphere.

    Grayton Beer Taproom (Santa Rosa Beach) – A crowd-favorite venue offering locally brewed craft beer.

    Stinky’s Bait Shack (Dune Allen Beach) – A beloved local entertainment venue, serving up more than just laughs.

    Beaches Comedy Club (Panama City Beach) – Panama City Beach’s premier dedicated comedy venue.

    Mosey’s Downtown (Panama City) – A hidden gem perfect for late-night laughs and laid-back vibes.

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    “We’re thrilled to build upon last year’s momentum,” says Dave King, President of SOWAL  Foundation and co-founder of SOWAL House. “We’re not only bringing world-class comedy  to the area but also supporting our local arts community through SOWAL Foundation.” 

    Tickets are available now at www.sandupcomedyfest.com.  Stay updated on Instagram and Facebook @sandupcomedyfest for exclusive announcements and sneak peeks.

    Supporting Local Creatives Through Laughter 

    Sponsorships from the festival benefit SOWAL Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated to empowering and uplifting local artists, fashion designers, and filmmakers in  Walton County and surrounding areas. The Foundation provides essential resources,  fosters creative growth, and advocates for artistic expression, believing in the transformative power of the arts to inspire, educate, and unite.

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    Festival sponsors are invited to an exclusive Saturday night wrap party at SOWAL House to celebrate the weekend’s success alongside performers,  community leaders, and local creatives.

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  • Local Author, Diane Pickett, to Sign Copies of New Book, “The Tea Wasn’t Always Sweet” at Sundog Books

    Local Author, Diane Pickett, to Sign Copies of New Book, “The Tea Wasn’t Always Sweet” at Sundog Books

    Diane Pickett, local author of the newly released book, “The Tea Wasn’t Always Sweet,” will be signing copies and meeting with readers in Seaside at Sundog Books on February 15 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.

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    Pickett’s second book, “The Tea Wasn’t Always Sweet,”  captivates lovers of Southern history as it chronicles the tortuous path of a fiery and vibrant woman and her kaleidoscope of colorful Southern characters on a march through decades of liberating change for women.

    This event is a great opportunity for local residents to meet Pickett, learn more about her books, and purchase a signed copy.

    Diane Pickett was born in Atlanta, Georgia, and has lived in the South all her life. This has enabled her to graphically construct the people and events portrayed in her novels and short stories. Her edgy, award-winning debut novel “Never Isn’t Long Enough,” captures almost a century of Southern history as she re-creates the lives of two intense characters and their chaotic journey through life.

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    Diane grew up in Northwest Florida and attended Florida State University after which she enjoyed a successful career as a medical executive. She has a strong interest in historic preservation and restoration and founded a non-profit organization devoted to those issues. All proceeds from the sale of her books will benefit the DeFuniak Landmarks Fund at the UWF Historic Trust.

    For more information about Diane Pickett, details about her books and upcoming events, or to learn about Defuniak Landmarks, email defuniaklandmarks@uwf.edu.

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  • Beyond Hell’s Flames: A Journey Through Death and Resurrection

    Beyond Hell’s Flames: A Journey Through Death and Resurrection

    Reviewed by Paul Willms for Life Media Group

    Along the sun-drenched shores of Destin, Florida, where Chris Harper has built a small empire including: Causeway Coffee, Destin Dreamers, Elevated Laundry, Thrive Luxury Group and Skyward Response Services. Few would guess the extraordinary journey that led to his latest venture: co-authoring what promises to be one of 2025’s most compelling spiritual memoirs. “Beyond Hell’s Flames,” written with his wife Jamie, is a raw, unflinching account of death, resurrection, and spiritual warfare that defies easy categorization.

    The book, fourteen years in the making, chronicles Harper’s remarkable near-death experience in 2004 when he was found underwater after an overdose of cocaine and alcohol. Clinically dead for 45 minutes, Harper’s account of what he experienced during those moments forms the heart of this gripping narrative. His description of the afterlife is vivid and unsettling, matching theological depth with visceral imagery that will challenge readers’ preconceptions.

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    What sets “Beyond Hell’s Flames” apart from typical near-death experience accounts is its unflinching honesty about the author’s struggles during the writing process itself. Harper reveals multiple brushes with death during the book’s creation – a motorcycle accident, a near-fatal incident with falling lumber, a heart attack, and a diagnosis of Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS). These trials, rather than deterring him, seemed to deepen his resolve to share his story.

    Particularly powerful chapters are:  The Madness, The Dragon and The Morning Star, where Harper delves into his encounters with what he describes as the demonic realm. His experiences in Colorado Springs and his understanding of spiritual warfare are recounted with both intensity and theological precision, grounded in scriptural references while maintaining the immediacy of personal testimony.

    The book takes an unexpected turn in its final three chapters, which Harper describes as “the love story portion.” Here, the narrative transforms from a harrowing spiritual adventure into a profound meditation on divine love and human worth. Harper’s account of giving away his company, Everlasting Homes, to a competitor named Ben becomes a powerful parable about faith and generosity.

    While skeptics might dismiss some of Harper’s more supernatural claims, his sincerity is undeniable, and his story is told with compelling conviction. The book’s strength lies in its ability to weave together personal testimony, theological reflection, and a profound message about transformation and redemption.

    “Beyond Hell’s Flames” is not a comfortable read – nor is it meant to be. It challenges conventional religious perspectives and may prove controversial in some circles. Indeed, Harper openly discusses being shunned by his own church for sharing his experiences. Yet it’s this very willingness to confront difficult truths that makes the book so powerful.

    For readers interested in spiritual memoirs, near-death experiences, or testimonies of personal transformation, “Beyond Hell’s Flames” offers a unique and challenging perspective. Whether one accepts every aspect of Harper’s account or not, his story demands attention and reflection.

    Given its powerful narrative and timely message, this book is possibly destined for the New York Times bestseller list and broader cultural impact in 2025.

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  • Cultural Arts Alliance of Walton County Announces Artists Featured in Foster Gallery Partner Exhibition at Coastal Branch Library

    Cultural Arts Alliance of Walton County Announces Artists Featured in Foster Gallery Partner Exhibition at Coastal Branch Library

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    The Cultural Arts Alliance of Walton County (CAA) is proud to announce The Foster Gallery’s Spring rotation of artists featured in a partner exhibition at the Coastal Branch Library located at 437 Greenway Trail in Santa Rosa Beach. Original work by twelve regional artists will be featured in the exhibit which runs through April 30, 2025. The public is invited to attend a special morning celebrating art and creativity on Saturday, February 15 from 10 a.m. to noon. Meet the artists and enjoy some coffee and light breakfast bites all while connecting with fellow art enthusiasts in a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere. All ages are welcome.

    The selected featured artists are Elena Filshtinska, Harriet Nix, Janis Mars Wunderlich, Joseph Cantin, Katherine Duda, Kim Clark, Kim Salesses, Linda Kaye Moriarity, Mary McCollum, Masha Edmond, Sierra Swan, and Susan Julio.

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    All rotation artists are members of the Cultural Arts Alliance. All exhibited works are for sale, and online for viewing and purchase at CulturalArtsAlliance.com/foster-gallery.

    For Coastal Branch library hours, please visit waltonlibraries.com. For more information, including class schedule, ceramics services and space rental of the Bayou Arts Center for private events, call (850) 622.-5970 or visit CulturalArtsAlliance.com.

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  • Winter Rescue: Community Comes Together After Cold-Stun Event Threatens Sea Turtles

    Winter Rescue: Community Comes Together After Cold-Stun Event Threatens Sea Turtles

    This past month brought record-breaking cold temperatures and snow to the Florida Panhandle which, while fun for humans, spelled danger for Florida natives not well-adapted to these cold spells. Water temperatures below 50 degrees Fahrenheit for prolonged periods can be fatal to cold-blooded sea turtles. Three days of nighttime air temperatures below freezing alerted local biologists to prepare for a sea turtle cold-stun event.

    When sea turtles become too cold, they are unable to swim, or even lift their heads out of the water to breathe. Often, this leads to drowning or the turtles are washed ashore where they are unable to fend off predators. They need warmth and protection from the harsh weather conditions to revitalize, and time is of the essence.

    Numerous volunteers and volunteer organizations answered the call for assistance, alongside state and federal biologists, to save these beloved creatures.  The rescuers bundled in protective clothing and went to work, searching for turtles along St. Joseph Bay shoreline in Gulf County and Tyndall Air Force Bases’ Crooked Island shorelines in Bay County by foot, kayak, and motorboat.

    Many turtles were found along mucky shorelines or drifting in the bay with shells slightly above the waterline.  All were barely moving or not moving at all.  Rescuers walked in waders or muck boots to reach the turtles, using kayaks or paddleboards to transport multiple turtles to a nearby dock or to a motorboat waiting in deeper waters.

    From shoreline or bay to truck, each turtle was lifted many times, a cold and physically demanding job – turtles ranged in size from a dinner plate to over 100 pounds!  You better eat your Wheaties if you want to rescue sea turtles.  Once loaded onto trucks, they were taken on a 1.5-hour ride to Gulf World Marine Institute in Panama City Beach.

    In total, the rescuers retrieved and transported over 1,100 cold-stunned sea turtles to the marine Institute, most from St. Joseph Bay. The vast majority of the turtles rescued were green turtles, with only a handful of loggerheads or Kemp’s ridley.

    Sadly, for some of the turtles, it was too late, but without the rescue efforts, many more turtles might have died. Losing sea turtles in a mass casualty event caused by cold weather could have lasting impacts on an already compromised population. Florida is home to five species of sea turtles; all are federally listed as endangered or threatened.

    Once rehabilitated, the turtles will be released into the Gulf of Mexico, near the tip of the St. Joseph Bay Peninsula. These mass release events are open to the public, and more information on timing will be available soon. Deeper waters, such as those in this area, may help turtles reorient to warmer areas for the rest of the winter months.

    If members of the public encounter a sea turtle in distress, they should not touch it, but instead call the Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission’s 24-hour Wildlife Alert number at 1-888-404-FWCC (1-888-404-3922).

    The Gulf World Marine Institute is a non-profit organization and depends on the support of volunteers and donations. To learn how you can get involved visit https://www.gwmi.info/.

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  • The Snowbirds Get Busy!

    The Snowbirds Get Busy!

    Escape the winter blues and join the Walton County Snowbirds community in Florida!  This group surely knows how to have fun!!  Hosting several sports and outdoor activities as well as their arts, crafts, cards, and discussion groups, there is something for everyone. Their social events include TGI Thursday happy hours, dinners, dolphin cruise, casino trips, and bi-weekly gatherings are all packed with entertainment, joy, and laughter.

    Check out their latest activity highlight – the Ukulele Next Step class – a new favorite among snowbirds! Join them for exciting February events, and if you are interested in becoming a member, visit their website, www.waltoncountysnowbirds.com, or Facebook page, Walton County Snowbirds, for registration details and the latest events. Don’t miss out on the warmth, camaraderie, and endless activities!

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