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  • Lyle Lovett Hits Miramar Beach for This Weekend’s Moon Crush Cowboy Moon Music Fest

    Lyle Lovett Hits Miramar Beach for This Weekend’s Moon Crush Cowboy Moon Music Fest

    As Interviewed by Will Estell October 29, 2024

    If you know much about music then you likely know at least something about the talented Texan turned singer, songwriter, actor, and producer, Lyle Lovett.

    Lyle Lovett Hits Miramar Beach for This Weekend’s Moon Crush Cowboy Moon Music FestAs if fourteen albums, twenty-five singles to date, four Grammy Awards (including wins for Best Male Country Vocal Performance, and Best Country Album) were not enough to prove his creative genius, Lovett has also managed to snag over forty acting credits in film and television, in addition to thirty plus vocal and scoring credits.

    In addition to all of his entertainment accolades, however, the multi-talented Lovett -who will be celebrating his 67th birthday on November 1st, while performing at Moon Crush Cowboy Moon- can also add to that impressive resume: Dad to seven-year-old twins.

    In advance of his Friday and Sunday (November 1st and 3rd) Moon Crush performances, I sat down to talk with Lyle about everything from fatherhood, music, acting, and his time playing along our beautiful beach communities.

    The entirety of our rather lengthy discussion will run later in various publications, including Destin Life, SoWal Life, FWB Life, BayLife and PCB Life. However, we are taking the opportunity to share some excerpts from the future Lyle Lovett feature magazine articles here, and reminding you that you can still grab your Moon Crush, Cowboy Moon passes to see Lyle and a talented array of other artists at https://Topeka.Live.

    Man, You’re quite the work horse. You’re playing two of three nights at Moon Crush in Miramar Beach, and then you head out for a UK tour where you are literally playing five nights in a row, from Glasgow to Dublin to Belfast then two dates in London. That has to be incredibly exhausting to play so many days in a row. Most artists I talk with just don’t do that… or can’t.  How do you handle that with such a small amount of vocal rest? 

    You know, I don’t really worry about doing shows multiple nights. My voice is not such an instrument that I have to take that kind of care of it. I mean, I sort of sound the way I sound no matter what [laughing].

    Have you always done numerous back-to-back dates like that, across most of your touring career?

    We have to, you know, just because of the size of our group. I mean, with the full band we had 32 people on the road this summer, so we really do have to work in five or six nights a week. And you know, I would rather be productive when I’m away from home than have a night off somewhere and do nothing. So that then when I am home, I get to really be home and spend time with my family.

    There are plenty of artists that don’t choose to do it that way, but one thing that I’ve found over the years, to quote one of my mom’s training axioms, when she was a training specialist at Exxon, “There are many, many correct ways to do something.”

    I’m guessing having twins in first grade also makes being home as often as possible very important, right?

    Absolutely it does. And I’m home far more than I’m gone. In fact, I’ve kind of kept track, and since they were born in 2017 I’ve only missed 12 days [at once] away from home, and that was just for logistical reasons. Many times, I even fly back home when I have one day off between shows. It’s hard for me to go for more than a week without seeing them. So, most of the time, I’m able to get on an early flight out and be home even if it’s just for the day, you know. But when I’m home, I’m really home and I get to take them to school in the morning.

    You’ve stayed close to your roots having grown up just outside of Houston, and still calling that general area home. What made you stay there? 

    Yeah, I grew up in Klein [a rural Texas town near Houston]. My mom was a Klein and my great, great grandpa was the first Klein there. So that’s our place. We’ve got a real family connection to the area. And that’s just one reason it’s important to me. Ours is one of the last rural properties in the area and we’re surrounded by subdivisions at this point.

    In many ways that place has been my life’s work. To hang on to my grandpa’s farm place, you know. Buying it back over the years after being sold out of the family back in the early 80’s. And, you know, reassembling it.

    I think it’s safe to say that your music is most typically associated with the country genre, but the truth is your compositions are really amalgamations of everything from blues and jazz to folk and gospel. What does Lyle Lovett consider his music to be, and where did that influence come from? 

    I grew up in Houston, which was, as you know, one of the big media markets in the country. And I listened to pop music. I listened to country music. I listened to my parents’ record collection, which had Glenn Miller records, Ray Price records, Ray Charles records, and Nat King Cole records. So, to me, that was all just great music. My writing just reflects my taste, really.

    What about the gospel element to some of your songs. What brought that into the writing room?

    I grew up in church, but I grew up in the Lutheran church. So, singing that kind of gospel music didn’t really happen. But I always liked that kind of gospel music. My dad was raised Baptist, and when we’d go visit his home church, I could hear the difference. They’d have a gospel quartet for music. I love church music and I’ve always been intrigued by different styles of music.

    I’ve asked artists from the late great Jimmy Buffett to Kenny Chesney to Darius Rucker What the biggest changes have been over their musical career, that actually made a specific impact on how they do things. You’ve come up in some of that same time frame. What industry changes have impacted you the most? 

    Well, the changes I’ve seen are more from just observing and listening, but I don’t feel like they do impact me, as much as they have some. But, you know, there’s, there’s certainly more pop influence in country than ever before. I mean, the style of country –what’s considered country– has changed dramatically even since the eighties when my first record came out.

    I’ve kind of always been into doing my own thing. I started out playing solo, or with one other person, doing my own songs. I mean, I’ve always played singer songwriter rooms and folk clubs. So, my approach to performing has always been more from that point of view. I really never was thinking about how I can write a hit like one that’s on the radio right now, or what sort of styles I need to write.  I was able to make up songs that appeal to me for personal reasons, rather than, you know, sort of trying to guess what the market might want at any given time.

    What keeps you going? What is the driving force behind Lyle Lovett all these years later? 

    I just love being able to do what I get to do. It was very important to my parents that I went to college and got a degree, so I did. My parents both worked really hard and made decisions based on what they had to do. And, by doing that they were able to afford me the ability to instead do something I wanted to do. I never ever want to take that for granted, and I believe I owe it to them and me to be the best I can at this. No matter how long I do it.

    What would you be doing if you weren’t writing and performing music or acting?

    I have no idea, Will. [laughing].

    Then I guess it’s a damn good thing that you’re so good at what you do. [both laughing]

    I saw you perform at 30A Songwriter’s Festival, when I was covering that event, and you’ve mentioned to me that was your first time along our Northwest Florida beach communities. What do you think of our area? Have you been able to hit the beaches and spend any time out taking in scenery that has drawn so many of your fellow artists, and Texans, to spend their vacations along our shores?  

    When I was there for the 30A Songwriter’s Festival [2023] that was really the first time that I’d spent any time there, besides just driving through.

    April, my wife, used to go to Destin every summer with her parents and she’s really fond of the area. I mean it’s beautiful, as you know. I’m excited that we get to be there for a few days this weekend. I grew up going to Galveston and Surfside [Texas beaches] where the beaches are quite different. Where the sand is kind of brown. So, it’s a whole different deal. And I know it is quite the destination for lots of folks.

    Any parting thoughts or perils of Texan wisdom you’d like to leave for our readers?

    Get out and see the shows this weekend! Our shows with The Large Band [the actual name of Lovett’s full band] are just incredible. I absolutely love what the people in my band bring to my songs and how they make my songs better and more musical. You know, I get to play music with some of my heroes. Legends in the business. I mean, we have Russ Kunkel playing drums this weekend. Leland Skylar playing bass, and Jim Cox playing piano. James Herr along with Jeff White on guitar. That’s quite the lineup, right? You know, to step on stage with them when those guys are trying their best to help me, that’s a great feeling.

    Will Estell is a writer, editor, and media consultant with over 700 published magazine features in an array of genres including tourism, music, real estate and automobile editorials. Will has penned one-on-one cover interview features with such well-known artists as Kenny Chesney, Jimmy Buffett, Alan Jackson, Darius Rucker, Styx, Amy Grant, Sara Evans and numerous others. And now, Lyle Lovett, too. He is the chief creative officer of Estell Hussey Media, LLC, and over the past 26 years has been instrumental in co-founding 12 new magazine titles from concept to fruition—both for other publishers and himself—as well as serving as editor in chief for numerous others, locally and nationally. Originally from the backwoods of rural Mississippi, Will is a father of three who splits his time between Destin and Navarre Beach, Florida, along with his wife, WEAR ABC 3 Florida Gulf Coast news anchor, Laura Hussey-Estell. Will is a regular contributor to Life Media’s family of publications.

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  • Keeping Kindness at the Fore This Election Season

    Keeping Kindness at the Fore This Election Season

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    The Walton County Democratic Women’s Club and the Democratic Party were represented at the Walton County Fair. One of the pictures was taken by a young man wielding a Trump yard sign. It shows us that though we have political differences, it should never stop the flow of the milk of human kindness.

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  • Insights for Investors: Estate Planning – What are the Basics Everyone Should Know?

    Insights for Investors: Estate Planning – What are the Basics Everyone Should Know?

    By Maurice Stouse, Financial Advisor and Branch Manager

    Maurice Stouse

    Planning for the passing of your estate – everything that you have come to own in this life, is something that all of us will need to do. It is said that the formal process of estate planning is only done by about one-third of people. The question is: should everyone have an estate plan (and do estate planning)? To answer that question, we will review what are considered the basics.

    The first is that you need a will. A will sets out your wishes for your assets. Additionally, it usually appoints someone to oversee your estate. That could be an executor (a man) and executrix (a woman) or an administrator (either a man or a woman). The most important thing to remember about a will is that the court (known as the probate court) must review and rule on the will. This does take some time – a few weeks up to a year and usually comes at a cost (court cost and attorney cost). The court gives the administrator a document that gives them the authority to go about distributing assets.

    The second would be a (durable) power of attorney. This is a document that allows you to appoint someone to act on your behalf for financial and other (non-medical) matters. Durable means that it can be in place if you do not have the capacity to act. It is important to note that the DPOA ceases to exist upon your passing.

    The third and fourth pieces concern your health (vs. your wealth). Those are first a living will which details what your preference for medical treatment should you not be able to provide that decision. This includes the decision of life support and also an advanced medical directive or durable power of attorney for health where you have appointed someone to make decisions regarding your medical treatment.

    The final would be a trust (and there are several versions of trusts). Essentially the trust establishes a beneficiary so that your directions are followed regarding who the beneficiaries are to be for assets that you have put into your trust. Many people put their homes in a trust as well.

    We encourage investors to ensure they have beneficiaries for all their assets. That is automatically offered on retirement accounts like IRAs and 401ks. A trust is similar in that you can name a beneficiary.

    The objective is for those who wish to be able to spare their heirs the probate process and transfer their assets to the intended recipients upon their passing.

    There are alternatives of course, such as transfer on death for an investment (non-retirement) account or payment on death (POD) for a bank account. These may or may not have limitations, so it is wise to seek proper legal counsel before proceeding.

    The above information is shared for information purposes only and should not be relied upon as legal or tax advice. While it is derived from sources we deem reliable, it does not take the place of proper legal and tax counsel. 

    Maurice Stouse is a Financial Advisor and the branch manager of The First Wealth Management/ Raymond James. Main office located at The First Bank, 2000 98 Palms Blvd, Destin, FL 32451. Phone 850.654.8124. Raymond James advisors do not offer -tax advice. Please see your tax professionals. Email: Maurice.stouse@raymondjames.com.

    Securities offered through Raymond James Financial Services, Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC, and are not insured by bank insurance, the FDIC, or any other government agency, are not deposits or obligations of the bank, are not guaranteed by the bank, and are subject to risks, including the possible loss of principal. Investment Advisory Services are offered through Raymond James Financial Services Advisors, Inc. The First Wealth Management and The First Bank are not registered broker/dealers and are independent of Raymond James Financial Services.

    Views expressed are the current opinion of the author and are subject to change without notice. The information provided is general in nature and is not a complete statement of all information necessary for making an investment decision and is not a recommendation or a solicitation to buy or sell any security. Past performance is not indicative of future results. Raymond James advisors do not provide tax or legal advice. Please see a tax professional for advice specific to your own situation.

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  • Anything Can Happen at ECTC!

    Anything Can Happen at ECTC!

    By Nathanael Fisher, ECTC Producing Artistic Director/CoFounder

    Last year, Season 11 ended with a beautiful and magical show – Mary Poppins. Hillary Marshall Anthony and Vincent Pelligrino, along with 20 other cast members and a spectacular creative team co-created a wealth of magical, heartwarming and inspirational moments on our stage for you, our Emerald Coast Theatre Company community. My favorite moment of the show was during Act II when every cast member took the stage and the full company sang with full hearts “Anything Can Happen.” Here are just a few of the impactful lyrics:

    If you reach for the stars
    All you get are the stars.
    But we’ve found a whole new spin!
    If you reach for the heavens
    You get the stars thrown in –
    Anything can happen if you let it!

    While we were in tech rehearsals for Mary Poppins, I asked the cast to put themselves and their dreams into the number as they sang, and to really imagine and believe that anything could happen for them—and we would believe right along with them. This idea of dreams coming true is personal for me. If you read my article in last year’s program, you learned about “How ECTC Came to Be” (you can find this article on our website under “Theatre Thoughts”). As I consider the history of ECTC since its beginning in October of 2012, it is clear to us…Anything CAN Happen.

    Emerald Coast Theatre CompanyWe launched our first program in January of 2013 with an after-school theatre class of 10 students at Destin Elementary School. The following summer we produced a theatre camp at Destin Elementary with 30 students in a non-musical production of Aladdin. Anna had our 6-month old daughter, Zoe, as well as our 6-year-old twins, Mia and Bella, in tow as she gathered props and designed costumes for 30 students! Ora Wolfgram, a bright eyed 11-year-old girl, played Aladdin’s cat. The playwright took liberties in creating many roles for kids — hence Aladdin had a cat. Her only text was “meow,” and she delivered that meow with so much subtext each time that the audience knew exactly what that cat was saying. Ora is a professional artist now, and in a beautiful twist of fate, she is serving as ECTC’s resident Props Artisan and Stage Manager. We were blown away at the time that our 10 students had grown to 30 (and a cat)…anything can happen!

    Summer of 2013, we launched the Family Theatre programs at HarborWalk Village and the Village of Baytowne Wharf. I wrote energetic, three-actor plays, with engaging audience interaction for these sites. I pitched Jamie Hall, Marketing Director for Harborwalk Village at the time, the idea of a Family Theatre show, and she said, “I’ll pay you for two performances, and provide tech support. If I like it, I’ll book you for the summer.” After watching more than 100 people engage in “Pirate Pete and the Case of the Missing Fisherman” while dancing, laughing and having a great time, I asked her, “Well, what’s the schedule? Your audience loved that show!” We were booked with our first gig.

    While getting to know this community again (Anna grew up here), we were aware of the wonderful work that StageCrafters was doing in Fort Walton Beach, the great programming at Seaside REP, and the strong theater presence in Bay County with The Martin and Kaleidoscope Theaters. With the growth of the Destin, Miramar Beach and Santa Rosa Beach communities, it seemed like there was an opportunity to complement the theatre scene with professional theatre programming in Destin and Miramar Beach. So, in summer of 2014, Anna and I again started knocking on doors. Who had an empty retail space or event space that would allow us to produce a show? A Dickens Christmas is a three-actor adaptation of A Christmas Carol that I wrote to help launch our professional theatre, and HarborWalk Village and Sandestin both blessed us with event spaces for that inaugural production. 367 people attended the performances of that show and ECTC’s productions for adults and families were launched…anything can happen!

    During the first three years of the organization, we stored all the props and costumes we acquired in our garage, the carport was used as the scene and paint shop, and our Chevy Traverse was the work van. We had plastic bins and foldable dollies. One of my most vivid memories is dropping Anna off to teach a class with Miss Darla while I took care of our 8-year-old twins and two-year-old baby. There they were walking down the sidewalk in 90° weather, dolly and bins in tow with a full heart and determination to teach theatre to their students. In the summer of 2015, Stacey Brady, Marketing Director at Grand Boulevard, hired ECTC to produce a 45-minute adaptation of Shakespeare’s A Midsummer’s Night Dream for Theatre Thursdays in the Grand Park. The following year, Stacey and her team were gracious enough to let us use the space that is now Williams Sonoma for some additional professional theatre shows and kids classes. These were humble beginnings for sure, but Anna and I were already seeing the benefits for kids and patrons. The long days, hard work and lugging all the “stuff” around was so worth it when we heard how people’s lives were changing for the better.

    In addition to producing shows and camps, I was working as an adjunct professor at UWF in Pensacola as well as at Gulf Coast State College in Panama City. During this time, as I drove from one end of Highway 98 to the other and worked on productions in between, I just kept looking for empty spaces. The prayer in my heart was to have a home for ECTC. One day while driving by Grand Boulevard it hit me: every building had second floors that had offices built out, but the 560 building looked empty. Every time I drove by, I considered the idea, ‘What if that was a space for us?’ We already had a great relationship with Grand Boulevard; what were the possibilities? One night while driving by with Anna, I pointed to it. “Anna, see that building? See how it’s dark, and how every other building on the second floor has lights but that one?” She nodded with a small smile of understanding. “They haven’t built out that space yet and I really feel like we are going to be there one day.” “How do you know?” she asked. “I just have a feeling; I’m not saying it’s a word from God or anything, I just have this really strong feeling we are going to be there one day.“

    In August of 2016, I got the call from Stacey Brady. “Hey Nathanael, can you and Anna meet me at the 560 Building at Grand Boulevard?” We walked upstairs into the empty, echoey expanse and she said, “Well, it’s 17,600 square feet. Think you can use it?” “Yes!” Anna and I exclaimed as we burst into happy tears. As I recount this story, I can’t help but think of some of the lyrics referenced earlier: If you reach for the heavens, you get the stars thrown in — ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN!

    When we moved into 560 Grand Boulevard, I was still paid part time with ECTC while volunteering full time. Anna was hired as an independent contractor per teaching or costuming gig and volunteering the rest of the time as well when she wasn’t at her regular job teaching 4th grade. With a grant from the St. Joe Community Foundation, we bought curtains and tracking to divide off the performance space. A grant from the Cultural Arts Alliance of Walton County covered additional theater lighting, and with some amazing volunteer help from friends at University of West Florida – Glenn Breed and Phillip Brulotte – we moved in and prepared to open Constellations, our first show in the new space.

    Because audience members need a place to sit, we filled this need with donated white folding chairs. Monica Bowes owned an event company and offered her event chairs whenever I wanted as long as I was able to come get them myself and they weren’t in use for an event. By this time, my Father in Law, Jerry Ogle, had donated an old Ford truck to ECTC. So, every time we did a show at the Market Shops, the Williams Sonoma space at Grand Boulevard, and even the first couple of shows at 560 Grand Boulevard, off I would go in the old Ford to pick up one to 200 foldable white event chairs, and, of course, to return them the day after the production run ended. Soon after moving into 560 Grand Boulevard, with generous donations from Eric and Teresa Bolton and Doug and Jan Best, we were able to purchase our soft, cushy, black chairs and some sound equipment! For a time, these chairs set in rows on ground level worked. But, one day we had a few hundred children at a Field Trip production of Flat Stanley the Musical, and the kids on the back two to three rows were sitting on their knees and standing up. They simply could not see, because all of our nice cushioned chairs were ground level. Unfortunately, we did not get the grant funding we were hoping for to purchase risers. Later that week, I was having lunch with Shirley Simpson and we were discussing how unfortunate it was that we didn’t get the grant money. Mrs. Simpson asked me, “Well, how much do you need for the risers?” I replied with the amount. She returned with, “You’ve got it!” WHAT?!!! To this day, Shirley and I recount this story, her joy in being able to have such a positive impact on ECTC and my overwhelmed reaction at her news. If you know me, then you know that I responded with some breathless wonder and a few tears – truly, anything CAN happen!

    Since 2016, the partnership with Grand Boulevard for the space has been a dream come true. Our first season there, Season 4 (2016-2017), we produced two to three actor shows and no musicals: Constellations, A Dickens Christmas and Bakersfield Mist. We had a little over 1,800 people attend those three productions, 1,745 people attended our educational program performances, and we had about 470 education program registrations. I had just become full time with the company, but still supplemented by continuing to adjunct at Gulf Coast State College and UWF, Anna was still hired as needed as an independent contractor and volunteered the rest of the time, and our team was filled out with some amazing independent contractors like Bridgett Bryant, Darla Briganti, Cana Strong and others.

    Fast forward to the end of Season 11 and looking forward to Season 12 – we are now producing shows with casts of up to 22 actors; we had over 13,000 people attend Season 11 professional and Family Theatre productions, over 3,100 people attend the educational theatre productions, and 769 registration in our educational theatre programs including the satellite programs in DeFuniak Springs, Freeport and Panama City. Our team has grown to eight, full-time employees, including Anna and I, and one part-time employee. And, we’re looking forward to another season of spectacular professional and educational theatre with the goal of serving our community with excellence! ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN!

    While we were celebrating our 10-year anniversary, we were being interviewed by Zandra Wolfgram for an article in a local magazine. She asked Anna and I, “So, Year 10! Is it ‘Mission Accomplished’?” Anna and I looked at each other and laughed – “Mission just getting started! We are not done dreaming!” We still feel that way. Look at the last 11 years, look what’s happened, look how YOU our community has embraced us. We are so incredibly grateful for everything that has happened, but with YOUR help there is more. Will you dream with us, will you believe with us that even still…ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN!?!?

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  • Membership Keeps Arts FUN-ded

    Membership Keeps Arts FUN-ded

    Will YOU Join Us?

    By Zandra Wolfgram

    Looking for fun? You have arrived. As a member of Mattie Kelly Arts Foundation (MKAF), you are already aboard the “bus to fun town.”

    Take it from the MKAF’s CEO of Fun, Demetrius Fuller.

    “We really want to up our fun factor in all we do— including raising awareness and funding. Our tagline is Membership Keeps Arts FUN-ded,” Fuller explains.

    To realize our vision to “enhance and inspire every life through arts and culture,” it takes community support. As Fuller explains, individual giving has always been the rock bed of MKAF.

    Mattie Kelly Arts Foundation Zot Artz by Jim Clark“Mattie Kelly Arts Foundation was initially started from the Arts Guild Lunch attended by local art lovers and evolved into the huge support system of volunteers, patrons and sponsors we have today. Membership is the backbone of MKAF and a direct tie to the community. Taking part as an individual member helps to support the arts education and outreach that Mattie Kelly is known for,” Fuller says.

    Melanie Moore is the Director of Art Education and couldn’t agree more. This year, she has plans to complete nearly 160 custom ArtsReach programs. From teaching artists, residencies, workshops, touring performances and summer camps, each offering is designed to uniquely benefit a range of diverse populations from the needs of K-12 students, children and adults with special needs to veteran and active-duty military service members.

    “We’re connecting with and providing creative opportunities for populations that lack access to art,” Moore explains. “We tailor our programs to those who uniquely benefit from different ways of learning innovative and unique programming. We want to share the arts and a love of the arts with everyone we can and with the best programming we possibly can.”

    And this is where you come in.

    MKAF cannot deliver quality arts programming like the annual Festival of the Arts in the fall, the 10-week Concerts in the Village in the spring, not to mention its year-round ArtsReach community outreach initiatives without the community’s help. So please join us.

    “Membership is affordable, and the benefits are fun,” assures Fuller. “Where else can you spend $150 and get access to 15 concerts, a Festival of the Arts pass, plus discounts on MKAF events? You just can’t.”

    There are several new MKAF membership levels from just $75.

    Art Nouveau (40 years old and under) Single $75 – For those 40 years of age and under. Member benefits include admission to all of the Spring Concerts in the Village and Festival of the Arts, plus preferred pricing to all MKAF events.

    Pop Art – Single $150 or Double $250 – Member benefits include admission to all of the spring and fall Concerts in the Village and Festival of the Arts, plus preferred pricing to all MKAF events. This category is available as a single or reduced fee for couple who reside in the same residence.

    Renaissance Single $250 – Includes all member benefits of the Pop Art category plus a VIP Table seat at all of the Concerts in the Village, table is assigned upon arrival. (This is a limited membership category and will be filled on a first come, first served basis.)

    Impresario Single $500 – Includes all member benefits of the Pop Art category plus a preferred VIP Table seating at all of the Concerts in the Village, plus 10 general admission tickets to use at any Concerts in the Village or Festival of the Arts. (This is a limited membership category and will be filled on a first come, first served basis.)

    Plus, pledging your support is easy to do. Simply go to the MKAF website and sign up on the home page.

    Supporting MKAF means you are a champion of the arts. Since forming in 1995, MKAF has impacted 420,000 through our ArtsReach programs.

    You will be helping to support this special MKAF memory shared by Melanie Moore of Hands On with Zig, an MKAF ArtsReach partner who presents interactive educational based music events with multicultural themes:

    One of my favorite memories working with Zig was after visiting the ARC of Walton County. Zig begins each program by introducing himself and sharing some things about his life as a musician/composer/educator based in Nashville. After two hours of all of the clients learning to play percussion instruments of various genres (including country music) and making music as an ensemble, I saw that some of the participants were huddled in a group off to the side. It seems that they deduced that since Zig is from Nashville, and as a musician, that he must know Crystal Gale, and asked if he could bring her with him next time, as one of them was actually named after Crystal Gale. Zig explained that he did not know her personally, so it would most likely be him returning by himself in the future.

    However, when Zig returned to Nashville, he did work his connections and reached out to her. Needless to say, Crystal Gale sent an autographed photo to the ARC and it now holds pride of place. Needless to say, her namesake was moved to tears. What many may not realize is that when Zig comes to visit, and everyone learns to play an instrument as part of “the band,” they become the stars of their own show, and feel like they are a part of something special.

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  • Grace and Gumbo

    Grace and Gumbo

    By Heather Bennett Eye

    Our community was able to fill their bellies and souls at the Path of Grace Gumbo, Chili and Give Cook-off held on October 5, 2024, at New Life Church in Santa Rosa Beach. There was live music, ministry, testimonies and more. Guests were also able to vote on the best gumbo and chili along the Emerald Coast.

    The Gumbo, Chili and Give Cook-off is one of several events they’ve hosted this year for their Path of Grace – Rebuilding Lives Campaign to raise money for the construction of a 28,000 square foot dormitory that will allow them to add an additional 50 beds.

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    So far, they’ve raised $2.5 million toard their $8 million goal. We anticipate the cook-off contributed significantly towards that goal. “These events that we’re holding open the door to double the amount of women we’ll be able to help,” said Path of Grace Administrative Manager Marissa Martin. “We get phone calls daily, but we’re maxed out so we’re having to turn people away just because we don’t have the room.”

    Since 2009, Path of Grace has help women transform their lives. They are a nonprofit organization that provides a faith-based, long-term sober living environment with Christ-centered teachings, along with Alcoholics Anonymous, addiction counseling and celebrating recovery. Their 16 to 24-month residential program helps women regain their self-confidence and self-worth by leading them to have a relationship with God and teaching them important life skills and work ethic for a successful future.

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    “This program really works,” said Marissa, who also graduated from Path of Grace. “If you stay the full 2 years, and you work your program, this place works.”

    Our community consistently shows up to support those in recovery and we hope you will consider donating. You can view more about the Path of Grace – Rebuilding Lives Campaign to raise funds for expansion here, https://youtu.be/_uhymMV2IEo?si=wXjoojcJaANq42L-

    To learn more about Path of Grace’s recovery program, testimonies, projects and events, you can visit https://www.pathofgrace.net. Be on the lookout for more information on the Path of Grace Gala being held in December.

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  • Instead of Leaning Out, Lean In

    Instead of Leaning Out, Lean In

    By Stephenie Craig

    Stephenie Craig, Lcsw

    Do you ever find yourself leaning out of something you fear? Maybe you fear conflict so you avoid a hard conversation. Or, maybe you fear rejection so you present a false version of yourself to escape feeling judged by others. Or, maybe you fear abandonment so you close yourself off from others to avoid feeling unimportant. At the time, leaning out seems like a helpful strategy because it alleviates the immediate discomfort of your fear. But, upon closer examination, what is the larger result of leaning out?

    Not having hard conversations often results in lack of resolution, lack of understanding, and long-term resentment. Instead of creating less conflict, avoidance creates larger future conflict. Running from fear of rejection by presenting an inauthentic self ultimately creates a situation where you don’t know if people truly accept you for you. Instead of creating acceptance, a false version of self ends up creating more feelings of rejection. Closing yourself off from others to avoid abandonment actually creates more internal loneliness and abandonment. Ironically, leaning out of the thing you fear often creates more of the thing you fear.

    So, if leaning out doesn’t work, then what?

    As it turns out, the way to get what you really want is to lean into your fear instead of leaning out. Have the difficult conversation and prove to yourself you can make it through conflict and survive, often with a helpful outcome. Show up as an authentic version of yourself and learn that those who judge you aren’t your people and those who want to be close to the real you truly appreciate you for you. Allow yourself to be close to others even when it feels like they might leave you as a pathway to vulnerable connection. Getting what you really want happens through the risk of leaning into your fear.

    So, how are you supposed to lean into fear when the instinct to lean out is so strong?

    8 Ways to Lean Into Fear to Get What You Really Want

    1. Notice what you fear and instinctively want to avoid. Notice fearful, repetitive thoughts. Notice people or situations you are avoiding. Notice signs of anxiety in your body. Name the fear and the avoidance. “I’m afraid I’ll upset my partner if I’m honest and I’m avoiding having the conversation.”
    2. Identify what you really want. “What I really want is closeness and open connection with my partner.”
    3. Identify how to align your behavior with what you want. “If I want to be close, open, and connected with my partner, I need to communicate honestly even if it scares me.”
    4. Notice unhealthy coping patterns of leaning out. Notice when you are avoiding. Notice when you are striving in unhealthy ways. Notice when you are engaged in self-protective

    defensiveness. Notice your personal brand of leaning out behavior around fear.

    1. Lean into the thing you fear. Remind yourself you will survive the fear. Remember avoiding your fear will create more of what you fear. Do the uncomfortable thing. Remember anticipatory anxiety is usually worse than doing the thing you fear.
    2. Sustain leaning in. Lean in long enough to get to the other side of your fear. Repeat leaning into your fear until your brain remembers it’s a useful strategy.
    3. Evaluate the results of leaning in. Leaning in won’t always get your desired results, however, leaning out will always lead to more problems eventually. Notice how you feel about yourself when you lean into fear. Notice when leaning into fear produces helpful results.
    4. Practice. Keep practicing until leaning into fear is a way of life. Celebrate and be proud of yourself as you are progressing.

    Be brave and patient as you learn to lean into fear and walk in the confidence that follows. Connect with us along your journey at Journeybravely.com.

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  • Op-Ed: Amendment 4 – Not What it Seems

    Op-Ed: Amendment 4 – Not What it Seems

    By Doug Stauffer

    The most controversial issue on the November ballot is Amendment 4, titled the “Amendment to Limit Government Interference with Abortion.” Abortion is, unfortunately, divisive, but this amendment is deceptive. This change to the state’s Constitution would forever alter Florida. While Amendment 4 is being marketed as a means to “restore reproductive rights,” in reality, it allows unlimited abortion, strips away parental consent laws, and removes doctors from the equation.

    The Deceptive Language of Amendment 4

    Amendment 4 does not define one term used in the amendment. All constitutional amendments are carefully crafted with specific terms and detailed language, leaving less room for misinterpretation. Amendment 4, however, has no such clarity. Words like “viability,” “health,” and “healthcare provider” are undefined. This opens the door to extreme interpretations that will be exploited by lawyers, making abortion in Florida a legal quagmire.

    For instance, the term “viability” typically refers to the point at which a fetus can survive outside the womb, around 22-24 weeks. However, Amendment 4 leaves this term up for interpretation. This ambiguity creates one of the many dangerous loopholes.

    The phrase “patient’s health” is equally concerning, which could be defined as physical, mental, emotional, and even financial well-being. By using vague and undefined language, Amendment 4 will allow abortion at any stage during the nine months if the “health” of the mother is deemed at risk. That “risk” could include emotional stress or financial strain. The life of the mother is already covered.

    Parental Consent Stripped Away

    Amendment 4 attacks the family because it obscures its impact on parental consent laws. While its proponents argue that “parental notification” remains intact, the reality is that this amendment, if passed, would repeal Florida’s parental consent laws. Think about it! Every other medical procedure performed on a minor requires parental consent—why should abortion be the ONLY exception?

    Who’s Behind the Amendment?

    Florida voters should ask themselves: Who stands to benefit from this radical amendment? Groups like Planned Parenthood, the ACLU, and the Open Society Fund, led by George Soros, have poured millions of dollars into this initiative. These are not grassroots organizations, but well-funded, out-of-state interests determined to make an example of Florida by creating an abortion destination state.

    In 2022, Michigan passed a similar state constitutional amendment. What has followed are taxpayer-funded abortions and the removal of all restrictions, including late-term abortions. If Amendment 4 passes, Florida will follow the same path, forcing taxpayers to pay the bill and allowing abortion throughout all nine months of pregnancy. Even most proponents of abortion do not believe in third-trimester abortions.

    Why This Amendment is Too Extreme for Florida

    Amendment 4, as an amendment to the Constitution, will result in an almost irreversible outcome. Once enshrined in the state Constitution, our elected representatives will be powerless to fix any problems. If passed, this amendment would turn Florida into a haven for limitless abortions, drawing individuals from states with more common-sense abortion guidelines. The lack of definitions and legal loopholes would enrich attorneys, sparking years of costly litigation. The taxpayers will be adversely affected and have no hope of finding a solution.

    A Call for Informed Voting

    The supporters of Amendment 4 want to deceive voters into thinking that the amendment’s real outcomes are unknown. Floridians deserve to be fully informed, not misled by deceptive language and hidden agendas. If parents no longer must give permission for a juvenile to have an abortion, be honest!

    During all the heated rhetoric surrounding Amendment 4, one crucial element is often overlooked: love and understanding for the women who have experienced abortion. While some may be satisfied with their decision, others carry a lifetime of regret, and every time this issue ignites another firestorm, those emotions are stirred anew. As we engage in this important debate, let us not forget that compassion must remain at the heart of our conversations. Regardless of our views, every person, including those who have walked this difficult path, deserves our love, respect, and empathy.

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  • Book Review of James Clear’s “Atomic Habits”

    Book Review of James Clear’s “Atomic Habits”

    by Michael McManus LCSW.

    Michael McManus

    As a therapist, I love this book as it outlines simple, basic and effective ways to facilitate change in your life.

    Get ready to unlock the secrets of habit formation with “Atomic Habits” a book that’s part science, part self-help, and quite transformative! If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of bad habits or longing for that elusive “better version” of yourself, this book will assist you in that journey.

    From the very first pages, Clear captivates readers with his engaging storytelling and relatable anecdotes. He introduces the idea that small changes—like the size of an atom—can lead to astonishing results over time. Imagine transforming your life by simply improving by 1% each day. It sounds so manageable, doesn’t it? Clear effectively dispels the myth that you need to overhaul your entire existence overnight. Instead, he champions the power of tiny tweaks that can snowball into significant accomplishments.

    One of the highlights of the book is its catchy framework: the Four Laws of Behavior Change — cue, craving, response, and reward.  Clear illustrates how understanding these components can help you break bad habits and cultivate good ones. It’s as if he’s handed you a cheat sheet for mastering your own behavior!

    Clear’s writing is peppered with memorable stories and insights from various fields, keeping readers entertained while they learn. He shares the journey of athletes, artists, and even historical figures, making the principles of habit formation feel both accessible and inspiring. You’ll find yourself nodding along, thinking, “If they can do it, so can I!”

    Beyond the practical strategies, what really resonates is Clear’s emphasis on identity. He encourages readers to shift their self-perception, suggesting that true change comes when you start seeing yourself as the person you want to become. It’s a powerful reminder that change isn’t just about what we do—it’s about who we believe we are.

    The book also tackles the importance of environment. Clear suggests that if you want to change your habits, you need to design your surroundings to make good habits easier and bad habits harder. It’s a simple yet brilliant idea that can lead to major lifestyle shifts—like putting your gym clothes by the door or hiding that tempting chocolate stash!

    In conclusion, “Atomic Habits” is a delightful blend of wisdom, practicality, and inspiration. James Clear has crafted a roadmap for anyone looking to build better habits and break free from the chains of self-doubt. So, if you’re ready to embark on a journey grab this book and get started. Your future self will thank you!

    Michael McManus LCSW is a therapist in private practice in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida and can be reached at (850) 837-0123 or Psychotherapy30A.com.

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  • Walton County School District October 2024 Update

    Walton County School District October 2024 Update

    Walton County School District October 2024 UpdateStudents and staff have settled into new routines and procedures while looking forward to the cooler days of Fall.  Our students are continuing to move forward academically while building a culture of character and high achievement throughout Walton County School District, proven by Superintendent A. Russell Hughes’ proud announcement that Walton School District is one of 13 high-performing school districts in the state and one of only five to earn the honor for five consecutive years.

    The theme for the Walton County School District’s work this year is EPI-lympi-C – In the Boat for the Goal,” a reflection of the teamwork, consistency, and excellence shown in the Olympic games. With this theme in mind, each school will work together to achieve classroom, school, and district educational goals, which may include criteria such as higher test scores or better attendance.

    We are moving swiftly toward the end of the first nine weeks of this year! Students received mid-term reports on September 11 with nine weeks reports soon to be distributed.  Parents, please ensure you check in with your child’s teacher regarding their progress. Keeping in contact with your student’s instructors minimizes surprises at reporting time. Collaborating on strategies to assist your child’s academic growth improves grades and student self-esteem. Our school district values parental input, and we want you to partner with us in educating students. Parents and the community may ask questions through the Let’s Talk platform. This community digital tool automatically delivers your text questions to the appropriate personnel for a speedy reply. Text (850) 204-9667 or click “contact us” on the WCSD webpage.

    Our schools participated in recognition or remembrance ceremonies of the September 11, 2001 attack on the  World Trade Center in New York and Patriots Day. Although the event occurred over twenty years ago, the great sacrifice of first responders and the immense number of casualties continue to make this one of the most memorable events in U.S. history.

    Our Fall extra-curricular sports are active across the district, and schools are ramping up for their  Homecoming celebrations. South Walton High School and Walton High School celebrated Homecoming on  September 20 and September 27 respectively. Freeport High School looks forward to celebrating October 18 while Paxton School will celebrate Homecoming on January 24, 2025. Come out to any game and support our student-athletes as they participate in team competitions!

    National Bullying Month occurs each year in October to bring global awareness to the issue. October 7 is the 18th annual World Day of Bullying Prevention. October 16 is Unity Day, a time to unite around kindness, acceptance, and inclusion. Our schools will bring attention to and highlight the importance of these characteristics in a way fitting for their campus. Parents may choose this time to discuss bullying and prevention with their child. Remember, Walton County School District discourages unhealthy interactions and utilizes the “See Something, Say Something” model throughout its campuses.

    October is also National Dropout Prevention Month. WCSD is continually implementing strategies to improve opportunities for all students to fully develop the academic, social, work, and healthy life skills needed to graduate from high school and lead productive lives. Our Career and Technical Education programs provide education and information that help our students gain the knowledge and skills they need to choose and pursue a career path. It is one of our district’s highest priorities to prepare our students to participate in our community as productive and responsible citizens.

    Walton County Fair will open October 14-19, 2024. Student creativity and ingenuity will be showcased during participation in Livestock and Agriculture competitions, as well as student Visual Art competitions in grades K-12. We encourage everyone to stop by the FAIR and visit the school booths and our WCSD booth in the main entrance hall. There will be guaranteed fun and entertainment for all!

    We are “In the Boat for the Goal” as we look forward to an incredible 2024-25!

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